Thursday, 31 March 2011

Fail of the day - racism in football

Over the past couple of years I've been getting into football. I'd been a nominal supporter of my local team all my life, but I hadn't really paid much attention to their progress. However since I met my husband I've been drawn more deeply into the world of football and became more and more interested in the game. I now regularly watch Sky Sports on a weekend to keep up with the scores. A few months ago I actually had a conversation with a man about football and knew exactly what I was taking about. 

So it was with some interest that I heard about a new talented player who is part of the Brazil team. Neymar who is just 19 was the goal scorer in a recent match between Brazil and Scotland. 

Unfortunately during the match Neymar experienced a racist attack. A banana was thrown onto the pitch and some fans were booing while he was on the ball. His team mate, a man who also plays for English team Liverpool, removed the banana from the pitch and later said to reporters from Brazilian TV "There is no more space for racism in the world.Europe is where it happens the most. That has to change, everybody is equal today and it's a matter of respect."

Neymar also spoke to the press and complained about his treatment - all in a very reasonable and calm manner. You can see his comments here. 


The issue was investigated and it was agreed that some fans were booing. It also transpired that it was a German student who through the banana.

However in a massively insensitive move the Scottish FA have asked for an apology from Neymar or the Brazilian FA. 

Yes you read that correctly. They are not giving him an apology. They are asking him for an apology - because he happened to mention in calm tones to a journalist that he'd experienced a racist attack. He didn't claim all Scottish fans were racist, he didn't blame anyone in particular. He didn't ask for revenge. He merely stated that he felt the 'atmosphere of racism was sad'. 

This is part of the statement from the Scottish FA.

SFA chief executive Stewart Regan said "the unfounded allegations" threatened the good reputation of Scottish fans.
An investigation by Arsenal, in whose stadium the friendly match was played, and the Metropolitan Police concluded that no Scot was involved in the banana-throwing incident, while match commander Mark Sheeran praised the Tartan Army's conduct.
"The Scottish fans' behaviour was first class," he said. "There were no issues at all inside the stadium."
In an SFA statement, Regan added: "It is very disappointing that this episode threatened to overshadow an entertaining match, played amidst a real carnival atmosphere created by supporters of both teams.
"Scotland and Brazil have played many times over the years, each time in a colourful and friendly environment, and we feel that it's necessary to draw a line under Sunday's events.
"Scotland's supporters were genuinely upset and annoyed that the unfounded allegations levelled against them threatened to sully their reputation as fair, good humoured and respectful spectators.
"As the matter has been resolved, and Scotland supporters cleared of any involvement, we felt it was only right that we acted on behalf of our supporters to request an apology either from the player involved, or the Brazilian FA."

OK number one, if you think it's necessary to draw a line under the event - why not do just that. Don't mention it again. 

Secondly who cares if the nationality of the person who threw the banana was German. Clearly he was sat amongst the Scottish supporters, so how could anyone have known that he wasn't Scottish when the incident occurred.

Thirdly, why the heck should Neymar have to apologise for an attack that happened to him. It did happen, it was on camera and it was clearly a racist attack. He should be the one who is receiving the apologies, not giving them. 

This is a sad day for football.

Wednesday, 30 March 2011

Thoughts on cleaning and housewifery

My poll has closed and a massive 2 people voted. One of you has a strict cleaning rota, one of you does jobs as they go.

Interestingly for me this 50/50 split seems to pretty much describe my situation as it is now. I have drawn up a rota for myself and I aim to follow it but it's just not happening and I've just been doing things as they arise and wandering around my home in a sort of bewildered daze

What gets me about the cleaning is how cleaning seems to begat more cleaning. I clean something but that leads me to see more dirt where I wasn't aware there was dirt before. So I clean that but then I find more dirt. I've found surfaces I didn't even know existed. For example this morning I was dusting our coffee table when I noticed there is a small rim around the bottom of it, a small rim which was filled with crumbs and dust. This is now clean too but it leads me to wonder if I'll ever get to the bottom of cleaning. I'm also mortified that people have been around to my home and seen the crumb and dust filled rim as well as all the other dusty little corners I keep finding.

Looking back on the past weeks, I'm not at all in the place I thought I would be. I thought I'd be sitting in a pristine home by now, but it hasn't happened. Instead I'm sat in a home which is cleaner and more organised then it was but which still has a long way to go. Partly this is because of the Wedding which was a huge time suck but it's also partly because of  my own inertia. It's a lot harder to discipline myself then I imagined it would be and I sometimes feel a little unmotivated.

On reflection the most successful days have been the ones when I've got up early and started my work early. Cleaning by the early morning light certainly exposes the dust which is a bonus but I think it's also because once I've got up and got going I can fit more into the day. There is a sense of satisfaction and well being to be had by sitting down for lunch with most of your work done.

Speaking of a sense of satisfaction - there are some jobs I really enjoy and some I'm not so keen on.

Favourite jobs


Baking bread
Cleaning mirrors and glass - (shininess and the minty smell of my cleaning products = yay)
Vacuuming
Cleaning the bathroom

Least favourite jobs


Ironing - so boring
Washing up - too much water

Despite feeling like I still have a long way to go I'm also starting to see some really positive sides to my new life style.


  • Nearly everything we eat has been made from scratch. This is healthier and cheaper.
  • If a guest dropped by unannounced I wouldn't barricade myself in because of mess related shame (apart from the bedroom. The bedroom is my mess zone right now)
  • Our home feels more relaxed because it is less messy and I take pleasure in sitting in the living room. It feels like a place of relaxing refuge. 

So having taken stock I'm looking for ways to move forward. One thing I've decided to is set myself a 'clean a drawer a day' challenge. I have an estimated 22 drawers and many more shelves which I need to sort out. At the moment they are the hiders of mess, the guardians of garbage. Even the drawers in the now 'neat' rooms are busting at the seams. I can't face a massive clear out but I think I can pluck up the courage to clean one a day. Whose with me?